Seven years ago today my husband and I first layed eyes on each other. Some of you have heard the story, but probably not the
TRUE story of how we met. (I don't tell it very often because it makes me feel like a man-hunter and a woman on the prowl . . . ) So today, for all of posterity and for the general entertainment of others, here it is.
Growing up I loved the theater. It's where I finally felt like I knew who I was . . . which is ironic because in the theater you are always pretending to be someone else . . . go figure. My friend Nancy had an uncle (Uncle Marc) who was heavily involved in community theater in Preston. Nancy was the one who got me involved in the community theater in Preston and I will forever be grateful to her for that. I have so many awesome memories of doing plays, melodramas, and shoot outs up there.
After being involved in countless performances up there I had become quite familiar with most of the directors and theater board members. I had been called a few times (generally about 24 hours before) to perform in a last minute shoot out (a little performance that the theater guild did in the street in front of the theater). Every year the script was a little bit different, a little bit better, and a little bit more fun. The summer of 2002 was no different. I'd gotten a call again about doing this performance, this time with a week's notice. They'd written a silly little shoot out throwing in a bunch of wild west characters from different plays. They wanted me to play the part of Calamity Jane (rough and tough cowgirl who ends up getting all gussied up at the end). Super fun performance. I even got a cap gun to shoot off . . . hee hee! Anyway, they had also recruited this guy named Casey to do the shoot out. Casey was a new comer to the theater. We had done Bye Bye Birdie together earlier that spring and came to be pretty good friends.
One night before one of these performances, Casey came and found me and asked what I was doing after our show. I told him I was just planning on watching the parade from the theater balcony and then going home. He told me that he and a buddy were planning on going to the rodeo after the parade and asked me if I wanted to go with them. Sure, I thought. I'm always up for hanging out with a couple of cute guys. (I have been possessed of serious boy craziness my whole life . . . good thing I had little boys!) Casey had told me that his friend, Brian, was supposed to get a date, but hadn't, and so we would just all be going as a group of friends. (I have to clarify this so you all don't think I am a total troll. I was not on the manhunt while on a date with another guy. Give me some scrupples . . . )
Right before the performance I saw Casey talking to this dark-haired, good looking, hunky guy. Later on during our performance I would look out into the crowd and see this same guy watching me. I was entranced. After the performance I met up with Casey who then introduced me to his friend Brian. Throughout the evening I made sure to place myself in the middle of these two good-looking guys. We watched the parade on the balcony of the theater together, walked around the fairway together, and watched the rodeo together. This was my first rodeo. I had never been to one before. The whole time Brian and Casey were explaining everything to me about the rodeo and all the events. Amidst the explaining of the rodeo I was getting to know these two guys better, having a marvelous time. This next part proves what a total cheese I was, but I remember being at the rodeo, sitting between these two handsome hunks and thinking to myself I wonder what would happen if I kind of shiver. So, like the true romantic moron that I am I gave a visible shiver. Brian turned to me and said, gee, I wish I had a jacket that I could loan you. It is kind of cold out.
And then I was sunk.
Here was the man of my dreams, interesting, a return missionary, respectful, loyal, friendly, and ready to do his good turn daily like a good boy scout. Not to mention I thought he was a complete hunk!!! (What am I talking about, I still think he is!)
The next evening I found Casey before our performance. I was on a mission. I told him what a good time I had last night and started casually asking about Brian, my handsome hunk from the night before. Casey, being the quick study that he is, asked if I wanted him to give Brian my phone number. Mission accomplished.
The next night I got a phone call. And who was it you ask? My handsome hunk from the night before . . . Brian. I think he should earn extra points for calling me so quickly.
And here we are now . . . 7 years later. I'm so grateful my husband didn't run screaming for the hills after having met me. He is wonderful. He is the about as close to perfect for me as I think you could come. He listens to my rants. He scratches my back every night. He supports me in all my crazy endeavors. He encourages me to do the things that make me happy. He works so hard for our family and hasn't yet given up. He loves our boys with all his heart. He doesn't let me sulk when I'm upset and he gives me time to think things through when I need it.
So here it is, my gushy love post to my husband. Happy 7 years, Hon! Hopefully the next 700 are as wonderful!